In Episode 76, we discuss the painful subject of grieving when a parent is emotionally or physically absent. They may still be with us or have died, yet the hurt lingers.
It can be especially painful when a parent is not truly connected to you.
Whether they died in childbirth, gave you up for adoption, was seriously impaired by drugs, alcohol or criminal behavior, you suffered from these circumstances.
And as you grew, you might have been neglected or raised by your Dad after your mother’s death, or your Mom after your father’s death.
You might have been raised by a grandparent or even a great-grandparent who took you in and did the best they could.
You might have been put in the foster care system shuffling back and forth among homes.
Whatever your life handed you to this point, it may not have been ideal and you might still harbor pain from your upbringing.
Feelings of resentment, anger, bitterness, sadness, loneliness and isolation may sit just under the surface and still affect you.
We address many of these hurts in episode 76 and I encourage you to not only listen in, but to look at the links below and begin to learn EFT, get help from a hotline when you need to talk and vent, and watch Marisa Peer’s videos on “I Am Enough” so you can begin the healing process.
Sometimes when we experience the death of a loved one, many other issues surface when we are in the grieving process. This may be one of them.
Bless you, my friend. My warrior!
xoxo
Additional Notes:
Visit Crisis Connections at my website to telephone a trained counselor to speak with whenever you are feeling overwhelmed, confused, frightened, fearful or any host of emotions.
Learn the Emotional Freedom Technique here for Stress and Overwhelm. It will soothe you and calm you physically and emotionally. Also spend time in this guided meditation on Self Compassion, which we all need. Dr. Arianna also offers many wonderful tapping and guided-meditations to choose from based upon which is best for you.
You can watch Marissa Peer’s “I Am Enough” meditation.
Bach’s Rescue Remedy will calm and soothe you. Remember, it does have alcohol in if, if that is a concern for you.
Treat yourself to a lovely gift from our Heart of Gold “I Remember” Products from The Mary Mac Store.
Remember, a portion of all proceeds help fund The Foundation for Grieving Children, Inc., the first national non-profit public charity which benefits children, teens, young adults after a loved one’s death which I established many years ago.
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